It is not OK to be drunk around your children. It is not OK to smoke anywhere near your children or for them to see you smoking. It is not OK to pull bongs around your children or to be stoned around your children. It is not OK to take drugs in front of, or to be under the influence of any sort of drugs around your children. It does not make it OK to break any of these rules if your child is very young and doesn’t know what these things are, or worse still, if you child has a disability and “doesn’t get what’s going on anyway”. Understanding on the part of your child is not required for you to create an unsettling, or frightning, or disturbing, or dangerous, or just plain shitty squalid and fucked up environment for your child. Understanding on the part of your child is not required for you to totally screw up your child’s early development and ensure that they have a damned hard time ever correcting the damage you’ve done to their outlook on the world. Those who do not feel capable of following these rules, please drown yourselves now, and do your kids a favour.